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The thing about figuring it out in public
There is a particular kind of courage required to admit, out loud, that you are still working on it. Not in a humble-brag way. In a real way.
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Hot Mess
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An accomplished, self-aware, glamorous grown woman can still be a work in progress.
And if she is allowed to be — other women are allowed to be too. This is the founder's personal and observational diary. Life as it is actually lived: ambition, contradictions, humor, mistakes, glamour, and the things she still has not figured out.
Not every entry has a lesson. Not every story has a resolution. That is the point.
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On standards, and the people who find them inconvenient
I have been told, more than once, that I expect too much. I have decided this is a compliment.
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Things I am reconsidering
A running list. It gets longer every year. I have stopped being embarrassed about that.
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